Foolproof Ways to Get Your Ex Back

You did it again – and now you're looking for ways to get your ex back, right? It's actually not all that hard to do, but you have to be honest with yourself. Stop doing the things that might have forced her away, and start doing things that will endear you to her, and win her back.

Think hard before you go about attempting to win her back. If you play your cards wrong, you might be driving her further away instead of attracting her back.

First off, a few don'ts. Don't chase your ex. This is a bad thing to do. Phone calls, IMs, emails, these will not win her back. And of course, NO stalking, that should go without saying. Avoid being depressed, and concentrate on winning her back. Don't be afraid to go out with the guys, but don't let them get you drunk and fix you up with another gal.

So, what should you do? Are there really ways to get your ex back? Yes!

Make yourself more valuable. Not just in your head, but for real. Your ex needs to see you on at least the same social level she sees herself, if not higher.

Keep in touch with her, if she wants to. NOT constantly, just to touch base. Remind her of good times you two shared, and if you're comfortable saying it, let her know you'd like her back.

Make sure you don't let yourself go. Get rid of your shaggy hair and your shredded jeans. Dress like you're trying to impress someone – your ex. You'll feel better about yourself, and maybe she will, too. These are positive ways to get your ex back.

Let her look for you – don't hover. Maintain your self-confidence. If you do want her back, don't run away if she comes to you. But don't go chasing her, either.

After you've both had some time alone, to think about what led to your unraveling, call and set up a time together. Find a nice quiet, undisturbed place. Take your time and tell her what's on your mind. Let her tell you what she is concerned about. Work through your problems and invite her back.